akhwatiii92

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته MYSELF I see myself as soft-hearted- humble- generous- compassionate- and a good listener. I have been striving to learn and practice the Qur-an and Sunnah- alhamdulillah. I only seek Islamic knowledge from Ahlus-Sunnah wal-Jama-ah scholars- both in person and online- alhamdulillah. I enjoy reading- learning- and spending time with my family and my close friends in a small circle. In general- I’m pretty quiet and tend to look serious- but with those I’m close to- I can be quite talkative- expressive- playful- and enjoy good banter. The Prophet ﷺ narrated from his companion ‘Abdurrahman bin ‘Auf -رضي الله عنه-: "If a woman -1- maintains the five daily prayers- -2- fasts during the month of Ramadan- -3- guards her chastity- and -4- obeys her husband- it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise through whichever gate you wish.’" -Narrated by Ahmad- no. 1661. Shaykh Shu‘ayb al-Arna’ut considered this hadith to be hasan lighayrihi.- I pray that Allah blesses me and grants me hidayah and tawfiq to become that kind of woman. Allahumma aamiin. WHY I WANT TO GET MARRIED I want to get married to build a family in both dunya and Jannah- based on the guidance of the Qur-an and Sunnah- bi idhnillah. I hope we can fulfill our rights and responsibilities according to these teachings- continuously seek Islamic knowledge together- respect and support one another in self-improvement- and raise our children according to Islamic values. I-m not perfect—I make mistakes. I try to be understanding- caring- and mature- but I can also be stubborn- childish- and moody at times. However- I am always willing to learn and improve. That-s why I hope to find a husband who is committed to being a good imam for his wife and children so that I can do my best to be a good ma-mum- bi idhnillah. I’m not someone who has a strong ability to color others- rather- I’m easily colored by my surroundings. My iman fluctuates- I easily fall into futur- and I often need encouragement from others to regain my enthusiasm. So I need a husband who can guide- teach- and correct me in Islam—not someone who expects me to be the one leading him. A man is meant to be the leader of his family- and without that guidance- I worry that I might be colored in the wrong way. Of course- marriage is about supporting and reminding each other to do good based on the Qur’an and Sunnah- but I believe- as stated in the Qur’an- that the husband should take the lead in that journey -see QS. At-Tahrim: 6 and the tafsir by Salaf-us-Salih-. As for me- I will do my best to fulfill my role as a wife based on the Qur’an and Sunnah- under my husband-s guidance. I want to be his safe place—a person he can lean on- share his problems with- and show his vulnerability without feeling the need to always appear strong. I’ll strive to be a good and attentive listener and a supportive partner for him. Even if I may not always have solutions to his problems- I will stand by his side and support him in everything he does- as long as it aligns with the Qur’an and Sunnah. I know marriage will have its challenges- but I believe that with patience- understanding- and sincerity- we can grow together and strengthen each other in this journey- bi idhnillah. A SMALL REQUEST Since I’m extremely shy around men -which is one of the reasons I tend to refuse being introduced for marriage-- if you’re genuinely interested and serious in getting to know me better- I’d appreciate it if you approach-message me with kind and gentle words. One more thing: my English is broken. I can read well- but struggle with writing and speaking. So please be patient with me. I’m still learning and praying that Allah grants me ease in speaking well and fluently soon :- Thank you for taking the time to read my long profile! I hope Allah grant us ease in finding our right spouse soon. Jazaakumullahu khoyran wa baarakallahu fiikum.